To Those who Dislike me & Jeff's Scapegoating.

JB's picture

Why is it you dislike me? Because I am honest? because the truth hurts? or I called your bluff to support a statement with facts?

They say its good to be yourself? when I am myself, honest, and upfront, people get upset? a true double entendre as jules would put it.

So long and Thanks for all the fish!

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Boygasm's picture

Blimey

Blimey Bryan, I feel the same sweetie after you bolted on me on AIM last night.

Not to be rude or anything, you are an awesome guy, honest and forthworthy. Nobody wants a lier. Hugs and chat me up anytime!!!! *spanks*

Jesse Joseph's picture

eh?

Who doesn't like you? We'll rough 'em up.

jeff's picture

More drama...

How many times has Bryan left Oasis now? I keep losing count. ;-)

I know the reason, and I've told you it many times before. You want Oasis to be solely what you are interested in, and when it isn't you derail other people's conversations.

"Oh, haven't we had this religious thread like a hundred times already?"

Comments doubting bisexuality, the need for queer teens to talk about cutting on here, etc., etc.

I mean, I'm not bi, never cut myself, but instead of going into those discussions and creating animosity (or creating your own topic and referencing their posts and discussions, and creating animosity, if you want to get technical), I just read them (sometimes I don't even read threads where I'm not interested), and let people get out of things what they will.

Bisexuals or cutters or anyone else don't have to back themselves up with facts, no one does. This isn't a queer youth debate website. It's a community site. If someone wants to discuss anything, they create a post. If other people are interested they comment, add their own flavor, or ignore it. The community decides what become hot topics or things that just fall off the screen. It's entirely democratic.

This isn't Survivor. Here, you can only vote yourself off the island.

Jeff

JB's picture

heh

I am not leaving Oasis or said I was. So long and thanks for all the fish is an Inside joke betwen me and another Oasian. Also, From your post jeff, it prooves my point exactly, when I am honest I am attacked. I never said I wanted Oasis to be what I soley wanted it to be. I never attacked bi-sexuals, I pointed out some people only do it because they think its trendy, I never attacked them. also I am not the only one who has made the comments about bi-sexuality becomeing a trend. ONce Again my point is proven. you be honest. you are mean. people only see you for what they want you to be

Everytime I make a comment about scape goating, you make a jibe at me jeff. Its not really fair, you have taken my posts and twisted them into what YOU want them to mean. this was a blog entry of mine, was it a forumn post? NO. I certainly expected better from you jeff. I honestly did. Like I was saying. YOu only see what you want to see.. are you asking me to leave jeff? it certainly seems that way.

adbak's picture

What happened to your motto, JB?

-"you are mean."
-"YOu only see what you want to see...."

Attack the idea not the person, eh?

JB's picture

well it appears you did not g

well it appears you did not get the idea or the message, only what you posted.

thank you, come again.

So long And Thanks For All The Fish!

linds's picture

Douglas Adams

Hey, that's my favorite book in the "trilogy" :-)

~Linds

Leisa's picture

Mediocrity breeds complacency

Mediocrity breeds complacency Bryan. And I fear that there are a few not so enlightened people that visit this site, thus they are not aware of the contribution you make to oasis. You are the first person that ventured to IM me outside of Oasis and I am very happy that you did. So if you leave, or someone asks you to leave, I, for one, as well as others I'm sure will be highly disappointed. AND always speak your mind! Above all else.

jeff's picture

nope...

I never ask anyone to leave...

I think the point of the new site, though, is that it is more anarchy, so forum post, blog entry? what's the difference? Both public, both invite comments...

I guess I shouldn't say much more, since you will interpret it through your ongoing martyrdom and use it as another example of your persecution.

Jeff

JB's picture

thanks

thanks jeff. never thought to call myself a martyr. good choice of words!

jb

"so long and thanks for all the fish"

adbak's picture

We only see what you show us

We only see what you show us, and at least to me, you come across as being arrogant. You seem to pretend to know the ultimate answer to everything and present it as such. If you were to be more accepting of others (like "cutters" and 14-15 year old bisexuals) you wouldn't be seen in this light. It makes you appear close-minded. Cutters have a place to unload their worries and you attack them for it? Younger kids are accepting who they are and their peers' views about it are changing to become more accepting and you attack them too? At least this is the way you appear to me.

DiamondDog's picture

Bry, you are an aries. In

Bry, you are an aries.

In mythology, who was Ariea? The god of war.

It's in your astrological nature, or at least you can blame it as such. My biggest annoyance is for those people who willing allow themselves to be passive observors of the world. Whether I agree or disagree with you, I thank you for saying something.

And conflict makes for good films.