I don't know what to do

bballgurl33's picture

I am a 19 year old female going to college in Utah. For the past couple of years I have been having feelings for other women. Especially a basketball coach I once had who is 4 years older then me. I thought these feelings would go away and that it was just a phase. But my feelings haven't gone away and the feelings are even stronger now. I have moved away from her thinking that it would help me but it hasn't. I wish I could tell her how I feel but I cant'. I don't know if it's the fear of being rejected or fear of not having her as my friend anymore. I don't know what to do. If anybody reads this I would love to hear what you think I should do. Thanks bballgurl33


nicki_m's picture

what do u have to loose sweetie?

uv moved away so u obviously wont bump in2 her all th time will u? and a friendship based soley on lust and fear of rejection is likely to make u bitter dont u think?
basically, u sound pretty much as if ur a lesbian 2 me so go for it, if she hasnt said she's straight there's a chance. better to know sometimes.