My freind brought this up in conversation the other day. Everyone assumes that everyone is straight until people prove otherwise, or come out. In the perfect world would straight people have to come out to, or would nobody assume anything and we could just be whatever felt natural? Other minorities dont have to come out. If your of a minority ethnicity people can just see that you are different. You cant hide it. Im jewish and i never "came out" as jewish, nobody ever assumed that i was christian they always asked, "hey, what's you'r religion?" Why cant people just as casually ask "hey what's you'r sexual orientation?" instead of assuming that im straight?