So.....

Spirit1313's picture

Chris and I are officially a couple....how that came about, I am not entirely sure....But I am not entirely against it...but what sucks is he has this whole soccer thing so I am not sure whats up for this weekend....What also sucks is my mother is not supportive in the least bit. I am dating a guy so she is in "Lisa is bad" mode all over again. I cant win. So what if I am bi! Thats how it works! And its not like I didnt date a girl....I did....and she is an AWESOME person...and if things hadnt gotten so weird between us who knows what could have happened! But thats the past....She needs to deal with it and be happy for me! Whatever, I am happy, Chris is happy. Its all good. Cya later!

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JB's picture

meh

meh... a straight relationship....

JB
Vice President and Drug Tzar of The Movement To Free Ommpa loompa Land From The Tyrannical Rule Of The Evil Capitalsitic Despot Willy Wonka And Associates

Spirit1313's picture

Hey......

Be nice.......It happens......
~Lisa Faery~

JB's picture

yeah

yeah shit happens too... *thinks about a bi-sexual free world*
JB
Vice President and Drug Tzar of The Movement To Free Ommpa loompa Land From The Tyrannical Rule Of The Evil Capitalsitic Despot Willy Wonka And Associates

Spirit1313's picture

Dude, thats not....

fucking cool....I dont comment to your blogs in a biased way....you havent started shit with anyone else about straight relationships...you didnt need to read my blog...whats the deal?
~Lisa Faery~

JB's picture

?

who said I was biased?
this is a gay site.

JB
Vice President and Drug Tzar of The Movement To Free Ommpa loompa Land From The Tyrannical Rule Of The Evil Capitalsitic Despot Willy Wonka And Associates

Leisa's picture

SO when is fabulon scheduled

SO when is fabulon scheduled to open again? ;-)

Chief Political Right Hand Woman to Ceo, Founder and First Member of The Movement to Free Oompa Loompa Land from the Tryanicall Capitalsitic Despot Willy Wonka

JB's picture

eheh

we are currently working on a screening process for applicants to ensure its a fabulous place!
JB
Vice President and Drug Tzar of The Movement To Free Ommpa loompa Land From The Tyrannical Rule Of The Evil Capitalsitic Despot Willy Wonka And Associates

alana's picture

umm...

i was under the impression this community was for bisexuals and questioning youth as well, but hey thats just the site description. but good for you about your relationship and good luck!

eTgen's picture

Its okay

I know how you feel it is a hard process to finally realize that you are straight. Don't worry you are not alone. There are tons of resources out there to show you that "it's okay to be straight". And once you are out of the closet you will begin to experience wonderful things and you can finally be yourself. And having a straight relationship is even more of a help when coming out- giving you support through this hard time.

Be proud of who you are.

:)

latterz,

eTgen
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CEO, President, Founder, and First member of:

The Movement To Free Ommpa loompa Land From The Tyrannical Rule Of The Evil Capitalsitic Despot Willy Wonka And Associates

[TMTFOLLFTTROTECDWWAA]

Spirit1313's picture

Since when?

Cause damn I think a few of us missed that one! There are more people on here that are bi than just me and I am definitely not the only one who blogged about a straight relationship! I dont appreciate the shit I am getting about this. Read the title on the website.
~Lisa Faery~

Dragon's picture

I...

Okay, Etgen and Bryan, chill! This is a site for bi people as much as anyone else. You guys have never given ME crap about dating a guy after Ilana, you haven't said anything. In fact, you've had nothing but kind words. How does Lisa differ at all?

~dragon fairy~

JB's picture

excuse me?

excuse me? First off lets get something fucking straight here. I never said bisexuals weren't welcome here, now wheres on this thread or spirits did I say this. can you please point me out to where I said this? You shouldn't read into things or you get exactly what you have here. finger pointing. I resent the fact you point figers at me? scapegoat me. and for arguments sake, others have posted controversal things about bi-sexuals or comments disagreeinging with it. and they were not jumpd on or freaked out on. So I say this. Stop being a fucking retard, seeing things that aren't there, reading into comments. you get dangerous results. If you continue to scapegoat me for all of your own insecurities, thats a dangerous thing. You don't really want me as an enemy.

JB
Vice President and Drug Tzar of The Movement To Free Ommpa loompa Land From The Tyrannical Rule Of The Evil Capitalsitic Despot Willy Wonka And Associates

Spirit1313's picture

Hmmm....

::sigh:: Oh good lets work some threats into all this bullshit....Look I was offended by your comments, so I commented back. Thats how it works. No one else got shit for being in a "straight" relationship, I dont understand how my relationship is any different. I did get the FEELING that I was not welcome here. I didnt accuse you of anything, JB. I am sorry you felt I was. I didnt intend to.
~Lisa Faery~

eTgen's picture

Huh?

I think that if you actually look at my post you will find it supportive. Perhaps in future I shall keep my positive comments to myself since they are not appreciated. What next- I wish "good day" and you infer that I am saying "trip over a can and get run over by a bus and die"? Honestly, can't some people have to bicker at everything.

Well I apologize for being nice. I shall in future not be kind to anyone.

latterz,

eTgen
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CEO, President, Founder, and First member of:

The Movement To Free Ommpa loompa Land From The Tyrannical Rule Of The Evil Capitalsitic Despot Willy Wonka And Associates

[TMTFOLLFTTROTECDWWAA]

Beryl's picture

Eh

I don't know, it sounded insulting at the time I read the comments to Lisa's thread, so I responded in kind. Usually I don't argue either, I think I was having a bad day, sorry I took it out on you.

Beryl's picture

What is this madness?!?!?!

What the heck? What are you trying to say? That theres no such thing as being bisexual? Because thats what it sounds like, and as a bisexual myself Im afraid I have to disagree. As for this being a gay site, bisexuals are gay, no matter what kind of relationship we're in at the time. Just because I go out with a guy, doesn't mean I don't like girls, and vice versa. Whats more, there are plenty of 'straight' relationships being talked about on site lately and in the past, so why are you only targetting Lisa? Thats horrible, to come here to escape anti-gay ridicule at home, and to think you've found somewhere safe, and then be persecuted all over again!

Lisa-Kitten, as far as Im concerned Im very happy for you as long as you are happy, and you have my blessing, for what its worth.
~B

Spirit1313's picture

Thank you....

hun, you have no idea how much that means to me.......Dragon, thank you. I was really disappointed in the comments before now. I thought Oasis was different, but some of the people just make me feel as insecure as I did before having somewhere to write about my life. Thank you for your support.
~Lisa Faery~