I'm in love with a girl, but she's afraid to love me back.

Rayne Beau's picture

Ok, I'm in love with a friend of mine, well she's more than a friend, we've been dating for a while now. I told her the other day that I'm in love with her...she told me that she loves me too, but that because of the way she's been brought up she doesn't know if there is such a thing as true love. But the thing is that Iknow that she's afraid that if she lets me in that I'll hurt her. But she's sending me mixed signals, because she's told me that she can see us together for the rest of our lives. I don't know what to do to show her that I love her and that if she doesn't realize itsoon that she could be losing me forever. What should I do?

niks121997's picture


I don't know what to tell you to show her that you won't
hurt her, but I think you should. Let her know that you
love her and would never hurt her. It's extremely
promising that she can picture you two together for the rest
of your lives. The situation could be a lot worse....like mine
...but that's a different story. Keep your chin up and tell
her you love her.
"All that we see or seem is but a dream within a dream."

hol's picture

No one can ever tell you what

No one can ever tell you what to do. But reminders...

Love is selfless

You can gift your love, but you cannot always expect others to gift it to you

And this sucks, and that's okay too