I'm just curious...lately I've read a lot of posts about how people think they should be out. Being out to your family and friends is one thing, but being out at work is another. I think it's great that people want to stop hiding and everything, but technically they aren't hiding. Why not just go about your day, being who you are? It's not really necessary to tell everyone you're gay, is it? If they ask, tell them what you want. But if they don't ask and dont' make any hints about knowing or anything, then why do you need to tell them? Your sexuality is something private, isn't it? Sorry if I've offended anyone or come off sounding rude, I'm just curious about this whole issue. If anyone has anything to say, please say it!