I was reading Ashley05's journal topic, "thanks bush! you fucker" and got to thinking, how can they tell who's a "man" or a "woman" anymore to make sure that marriage is between a "man" and a "woman"? Where do transsexuals fit in? Do they have to identify themselves beforehand to be discriminated against? Do they go by names or appearance? What if you tell them your parents were "ahead of the times" in the name game and you're feeling untraditional in your wedding? I haven't tried to get married yet myself, so I don't know how they decide this sort of thing. Maybe it's some sort of honor system.