Can someone Help me

fall_so_hard_for_love's picture

i need help, my girlfriends foster mom isnt to happy about us being together. she understands that we love eachother and that i would never hurt her. she even came along with us to gay pride. we showed her as much as we could we explained as much as we knew. but being 17 and her being 16 there really isnt much we can say. she doesnt want us really talking, she really doesnt want us to touch either. it really sucks so bad. i need help to figure out what to say to her mom to let her know that it is alright.

milly the fairy's picture

i dont know what to say....

There's not a lot you can do here. Unless she actually bans you two from seeing each other (which she can't really do),just be nice to her, be nice to your girlfriend, and show her mum you're really in love with each other.
This may sound dumb but if you can, try not to fight with your girlfriend in front of her mum or where she can hear. It'll give her more ammunition.
I'm sorry, I can't really think of anything.
Pm me if you want to talk.
Love Amelia

Fairylover2008's picture

I have to agree

Yeah don't fight with her it will just make the mom
more determined to not let you see each other
I don't know what else you can be nice to the mom
thought she will hopeful see that she can't keep you
two apart.

PT's picture

HEI

HOWS IT GOING? WEL, I GUESS NOT TO SWELL, BUT ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS TELL HER MOM HOW YOU FEEL... JUST TALK TO HER ALONE OR WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER AND TELL HER EXACTLY WHATS UP... TELL HER THAT YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH THIS WOMAN... AND IF SHE DOESN'T TAKE IT WELL THEN SCREW HER... KEEP ON LOVING THIS GIRL UNTIL SHE PUTS A FREAKING RESTAINING ORDER ON YOU... AND YOU AND HER A RE ON THE VERGE OF TURNING INTO YOUNG ADULTS (18) AND YOU GUYS CAN DO WHAT EVER THE HELL YOU WANT TO... BUT DON'T GIVE UP... CAUSE I DID AND I AM MORE DEPRESSED THAN I EVER THOUGHT I COULD BE... AND THATS WHY I JOINED THIS DAMN WEBSITE IS TO EXPRESS WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU GIVE UP... WELL WRITE ME SOMETIME AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND YOUR LADY FRIEND... LATER PERSON...

perttyboy101x1's picture

*Andy*

Hi

I truley understand because my mother is sometimes uncomfortable with the idea of me being with a boyfriend.

Try your hardest to keep your relationship up and running lol
Good luck
*Andy*