alone with no hope's picture

sometimes i feel alone. I mean i live in a town with no "gay" guys for
me to even talk to. Sometimes i feel so alone i feel like i am going to go
crazy. i am out to all my friends and none of my family. Does anyone else
know what i am talking about or feel the same way?


el's picture

lift ur head up

the feeling won't last... I've been through it and still going through it. I'm virtually not out to anyone except one friend and a netpal. Gosh, I haven't even dated before but I believe the day will come.

It helps to talk to the friends that you're out to and also people on the internet. Personally, the net has been a life saviour, basically taught me that it was alright to be gay and there ARE gay people ain't there. Made some really great gay friends too.

Your experience as a gay male (I assume you are from your post) will determine the person you become and it's not necessary to 'live in a town with other gay guys to talk to' to be fulfilled as a gay person.

Loneliness is a state of mind. If you really feel the need to talk about your sexuality, try the net. There's plenty here at oasis who wouldn't mind listening.

There is a risky solution, the more people you're out to, the more likely that you stumble upon another gay guy. It's all in the matter of probability.

irgalach's picture

Been there...

In fact, even though I live in one of the most populated cities in the world, I´m still there. I mean, I have met a couple of gay guys, but we have nothing in common, so yeah I´m pretty much by myself. So I do get very lonely sometimes. And just about 3 of my friends know I´m gay, so that makes it a little bit harder. Anyway, I know there might be someone nice I´ll end up meeting sooner or later, so I know you won´t be alone for very long.

Tha sinne a'deanamh cearcall an teine
Tha sinne a'dannsadh troimh thir agus mhuir
Bitheadh e aite nan diathan dearrsanta
Bitheadh e aite na diathan ar treubha
Tha an t-am a muigh
Tha ar treubh a staigh
`S e an t-aite naomh a

Fairylover2008's picture


I am out to my friends and family but sometimes
even thought I have a what seems like all my friends
who are gay I just feel so alone. So I know
some what, that you are feeling.

I was stuck inside someone else's life and always second best
Ashlee Simpson "Shadow"