advice on being shy...

rusty77's picture

i think i kinda hit on this my first post...but i'm really shy. i like this girl that i don't know at all (she's in advanced pe cause she's a sophmore and i'm a freshmen) and i have no idea how to start any conversation. she has a girlfriend, and i wouldn't want to come between them- i think part of it is just wanting to have a lesbian friend i can talk to about stuff. can someone tell me how to start a conversation without looking really weird? lol

Andrewgirl3's picture

i can't start one either...

I always seem to fail at those things. I end up talking so soft that the girl I like doesn't hear me, or I say something really dumb. so I really have no idea either.

*The probability of someone watching you is proportional to the stupidity of your action*

Orangearmadillo612's picture

Just try to be her friend first

Make some small talk about PE oryour classes. Once you get to know her better then you'll know if she's interested.

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lucky_star_1240's picture

don't worry

To start, just say "hi." Talk to her about PE teachers, people you both know, anything you think you have in common. Just remember that you are worthy of a great friendship and she doesn't think you're stupid.

-lucky star
"The body says what words cannot."