Just wondered if any of you can help me with a particular issue I'm trying to deal with at the moment. A few weeks ago a really close mate of mine told me that she really loved me and had been 'in love' with me for the past couple of years but had never had the courage to tell me before. She came out to me around two years ago and I was one of the first she came out too. She said that she's never loved anyone this much etc etc. The problem is I am straight but when I've been drunk with her before I've done things I probably should not have and I think these have lead her to think that I like her too. Now I feel really guilty for screwing her head up. Since she told me her true feelings for me and I didn't give her the response she obviously wanted from me she's been avoiding me and I've only seen her once since. This has really hurt me and I'm really missing her being around. Has anyone here got any advice for me and what I should say to her next?