No I'm not stupid, the first part is teh serious question, the second one (I hope) is a retorical question for the rest of you to ponder.
Now these days people say your a virgin if you havent had oral, or anal sex. And Since your gay/lesbian you cant have intercourse (physically I realize you can be, but your in bed with someone of your gender, well you know lol). So then if that is still being a virgin? What is gay sex? Can it really even happen?, and what about lesbian sex?. Discuss.