Trans or not? Please

Davinia MoonShine's picture

I feel like a girl sometimes but i also feel like a guy what should I do?

beaumec18's picture


Well, i have girly thoughtds, always have, but never considered being trans, so i don't know wat to sya. Maybe you should try cross dressing and see how it feels? although i duinno what ur thinking, but i would assume having a change-up of the genitals sucks. Not to be rude, but I wuold never do that even if I was genderly dysphoric... is that the right term?

Gay or Bi, but definately not mermaid.

jeff's picture


Stop trying to rush into labeling yourself into a corner.

Live. Love. Explore. Everything sorts itself out in time.

Patch's picture

Don't rush yourself

Discovering who you are, sexually, religiously, politically, anything, requires time and serious thought. Take me, for instance. I am discovering things about myself all the time, and I don't beleive I will ever stop learning about myself. There are people, some famous ones,who spend their whole life trying to figure out who they are and what they want, and never reach an answer. Don't think that just because you have some girl thoughts (or guy thoughts, depending on your gender), that you are automatically a tran. Hundreds of studies have shown that many straight people form time to time have gay dreams, thoughts, fantasies, and the reverse is true as well. This is applicable to your query as well. Ultimately, no one can, or rather should tell you who you are and how you should live your life. Your existance is in your own hands. However, regardless of the outcome of the soul searching that I highly suggest for you, there will be always and everywhere be people who will still accept for the beautiful person that you are. Life is not meant to predetermined, it is meant to be LIVED.

"What is the purpose of life? It is to create our own purpose."