I need a guys advice

Lez4Life707's picture

I was in the vclub when i turned 13 but a week later i was raped more than once by the same guy and in my own house. Now i don't like to be around stright/bi guys cuz i am scared shitless of them i am told that i not really gay Im just hiding from the truth but i love women and i love there bodys everything. Some people say i am a guy hater. what do you think guys I have no problem with gay guy are the shit you guys are my like a sistera.
Bette

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Paladin's picture

It's a little hard to follow

It's a little hard to follow what you're saying, but I think I got most of it.

Maybe you would have been bisexual if you weren't raped. But you were raped, and maybe it will be impossible for you to fall in love with another straight guy ever again because of this. Doesn't that make you lesbian now?

And if years down the road, you do get over it and can like guys again, does that mean you're not a lesbian at the moment?

Dave

Lez4Life707's picture

Thank YOU

Thanks
i also believe that i will be a lesbian tell the day i die women make me happier and im a better person now too
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PROBLEM_CHILD's picture

i'm not a dude

but i have been raped by the same guy a couple times in my own bed.and for awhile it was impossible for me to be around any straight or bi dudes forfear that it might happen again and honestly that didn't help.it just made me even more scared.but with help from a friend i was able to change that.at first i considered myself a lesbian because of it but then after a while that changed.so what you have to do is just get over it(it's harder then hell i know) a little and just keep telling yourself that they aren't going to hurt you and they aren't like that guy who did that to you.no you aren't a guy hater your just traumatised by what happened.you should try a shrink they can help or just talk to a friend you can trust they can help you get over it a little.sorry if that sounded confusing i do better when i'm talking and not just writing it all at once.i hope that helpped a little.

I want to cry but my pride won't let me.

Lez4Life707's picture

Thanks

Thank YOU
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