Am I Gay?

uberjimmy's picture

Hi
I am 17yo
I kinda Lived my life in confusion about my feelings because I had feelings for both
Girls and boys since I was like 10 but I didn't know what it was for men
I had oral sex with one of my friends and liked it.ALOT!
I have felt like I was gay since I was 13yo
When I saw gay porn I was almost sure I was gay
Now I am not really sure how I feel.
I like women sexually but not very romantic like.
I can talk to women but I never get anywhere and i also don't like their anatomy very much
I still have sexual feeling for women and also like men and the aspects of the gay community attract me.I'm very geeky in my interest and don't have much like for the aspects of many other groups like rappers Yuck! and Preps and Jocks AH GOD! DIE!!
But..
I am not the sterotypical gay man
I hate Most pop and some dance music
I Hate most campy stuff anyway
I love metal and punk as well as most rock.
I still think that I like men better romanticly but as of late I have been more into gay life and sex and less into women in anyway.
So what am I?
Should I just forget about women sex and embrace gay sex?
I don't know,..

Eegriaga's picture

lol do i know you?

lol i think ive met you online if you are the uber professor... anyways dont expect us to tell you what you are, just play your life as it goes (like who you like and act like you dont give a damn)

nobody is perfectly str8 or gay

"Being Republican and gay is like being gay with a bad haircut!"

uberjimmy's picture

what do you mean by professor

what do you mean by professor anyway?

Eegriaga's picture

never mind someones screen na

never mind someones screen name on AOL was UBerProffesor and I thought it was you

never mind..

"Being Republican and gay is like being gay with a bad haircut!"

ForestSpirit's picture

Only you can say if you're re

Only you can say if you're really gay or not. If you feel that you are sexually and emotionally attracted to males more than females, by all means call yourself gay and get a boyfriend. It's okay that you're not stereotypical- there are tons of gay males in the world, I'm sure you're not the only one that likes metal. You sound gay to *me*, but I'm not you, and thus cannot make a definite judgement. You have to decide for yourself.

Edit: You could be bisexual. Ever considered that?

Figure out what you want to do in life, and then take a nap.

Paladin's picture

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I had oral sex with one of my friends and liked it.ALOT!
I have felt like I was gay since I was 13yo
When I saw gay porn I was almost sure I was gay

This would suggest you are gay.

I like women sexually but not very romantic like.
I can talk to women but I never get anywhere and i also don't like their anatomy very much

This sounds like a contradiction. How can you like women sexually if you don't like their anatomy?

...the aspects of the gay community attract me.I'm very geeky in my interest and don't have much like for the aspects of many other groups like rappers Yuck! and Preps and Jocks AH GOD! DIE!!
But..

This is irrelevant to whether or not you are gay.

So what am I?

Apparently, gay but questioning.

Should I just forget about women sex and embrace gay sex?

No, you obviously need to experiment and find out whether you will enjoy sex with a woman as much as with a guy.

Dave

Eegriaga's picture

lol

lol thats hilarious nicely said but kinda mean lol

"Being Republican and gay is like being gay with a bad haircut!"

micky's picture

i'm gonna be different...

and just say yes.

hahahaha

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Daisy's picture

Ha ha ha

Whenever anybody makes an "Am I Gay?" or "Am I Bi?" or whatever thread, I always want to do that. :)

Did they love you or what?

stewie's picture

don't look to the world to te

don't look to the world to tell you who you are.
you know who you are. read my thread "ISSUES OF A BISEXUAL MALE"
i can relate to your issues you are having.
my way of finding out what i liked and did'nt like was
just to do whatever i felt like doing.
guilt free , it's your life , so act like it is.
fuck the world if it don't like it.

NovaCat's picture

Yeah, the kind of music you l

Yeah, the kind of music you like or things you like to do in your free time really don't have much to do with whether you're gay or not. The whole pop/dance music thing being gay music is a stupid stereotype because supposedly that's the kind of music girls like, and supposedly gay men all want to be women, so it just makes sense that they would like girl music . . . like I said, stupid. I'm not averse to dance or techno (no disco though), but at heart I'm a rock music kind of guy. I always have been, and I'm dead sure it has nothing to do with whether I'm gay.

Same with like who you hang out with. There are plenty of gay jocks and preppy kids and so on. The "gay community" isn't really a big group of people who all do the same stuff and like the same stuff (well, except for all being gay or bi). It's kind of a catch-all phrase for gay people in general, and it ends up getting defined by the most visible of the members of the "community", which happen to be people who follow defined stereotypes of gays, just like, say, black people are often stereotyped as being "thug gangsta"-type people, considering those are the most visible and/or vocal people in the so-called "black community".

What aspects of the "gay community" do you like, though? Because some of them may be stereotypes, some of them may be real, and I'm sure most of them aren't requirements for being gay.