how do you identifie-lgbtqi?

23% (17 votes)
27% (20 votes)
27% (20 votes)
7% (5 votes)
12% (9 votes)
0% (0 votes)
4% (3 votes)
Total votes: 74


bulldyke's picture


could you guys comment? i get tired of not seeing what people have to say.

"What is the purpose of life, if not to be out?"

asdfTroy's picture


Bisexual FTM. Even though, I tend to develop feelings for men more easily than for women, which I think is because I don't really connect with women the same way I can with other men, but I'm attracted to them. I think they're hot, but I don't get along with them, lmao.

Dakota's picture

why would we need to comment

why would we need to comment our vote says it all but so you have 1 heres mine im gay and have a boyfriend there happy?

How can we accuratly describe our feelings in words?
We can't

wishin2binboston's picture


i am bisexual. end of story.

Chizuna san's picture

i call myself a lesbian, caus

i call myself a lesbian, cause 95% of the time i'm attracted to girls. once in a blue moon, a guy'll catch my eye, but it passes quickly. honestly, i'm not even sure about the homosexual/bisexual/heterosexual labels. humans are sexual, period. the rest just seems to be a matter of preference and opprotunity.


Kang Lin's picture

Well said

I myself am more or less the male equivalent thereof. A girl will occassionally arouse certain feelings in me, but on the whole I find myself gravitating towards guys, especially from the point of view of affection above sex.

the mouse that roared's picture


I've been stuggling on and off with labeling my sexuality, which is probably bi, but there are some days I feel gay, and some very rare days I feel straight, and so it really depends on who I happen to be attracted to at the moment, not so much on gender (not that I don't find their masculinity/femininity/intersexuality attractive in itself)...

What I was trying to say before I got off on a tangent was that you're right on. :)

Are you hanging on to something useless just because you think it's beautiful?
--William Zinsser

Faded Soul's picture


Cause i dont like the word lesbian.

"If a kid asks where rain comes from, I think a cute thing to tell him is ‘God is crying’. And if he asks why God is crying, another cute thing to tell him is ‘Probably because of something you did’."

bulldyke's picture

i could agree. i'm sorta bot

i could agree. i'm sorta both. queer and lesbian. queer 'cause i love the word, and lesbian, 'cause i love the herstory (ya know, sappho and all that good stuff).

"What is the purpose of life, if not to be out?" ~Me!

goatchunx's picture



Life is for fun.

Sesshoumaru s male lover's picture

Bi the happy Bisexual


the happy Bisexual

ac4308's picture


ftm trans. don't know what else to say.

Brosia's picture

Why have those two together?

Queer, but definately not questioning.

Children of a future age reading this indignant page know that in a former time love sweet love was thought a crime
- William Blake

Daisy's picture

Same here...

Since I'm currently a lesbian with a boyfriend, I'm figuring I'm just generally queer. No longer questioning, though.

What kind of scale compares the weight of two beauties?

Duct Tape Fairy's picture

bisexual lesbian

I guess technically I'm bi (I like guys and girls), but I'm really more of a lesbian. On the kinsey scale (0-6 = striaght-gay) I'd put myself at about a 5 (mostly lesbian, but still a little bi). So, I really don't know what I want to call myself. I'm going by bi for now, just because it is easier (and it leaves open the rare chance that I'll find a boy I like).
I'm crazy for crying and I'm crazy for trying and I'm crazy for loving you.
-Patsy Cline

Shenlong the Arcane's picture

Bi, leaning towards guys. I'm

Bi, leaning towards guys. I'm bi mainly because I still have physical attraction to girls and a bit emotional, but emotional and physical attraction to guys.

luvanwal's picture


i say bisexual but some people pull the whole 'bi now gay later' bullshit. i am attracted physically and emotionally to both. i do tend to lean more towards women. though i have begun referring to myself as simply sexual with a leaning towards my partner of choice.
~a fallen angel~

NovaCat's picture

Okay, I never understood this

Okay, I never understood this: what in the world is the significant difference between "queer" and "gay/lesbian/bisexual"? Isn't "queer" a blanket term for non-heterosexuality?

Sesshoumaru s male lover's picture

I don't like the word Queer i

I don't like the word Queer i find it belittleing.Plus I'm Bi so i don't think it fits me.

the happy Bisexual

RurouniTyphoon's picture


I am a lesbian with bi tendancies. I think guys are cute but i would never be with one at all. I swore off guys in a way.

aarya's picture

straight thro and thro

i'm straight and proud of it...

bulldyke's picture

staight people rock

i think it's great that we have straight people visiting this site. two of my best friends are straight (though i think one of them is gay, he just won't come out to himself yet). thank you so much for adding diversity to oasis.

"What is the purpose of life, if not to be out?" ~Me!