Honestly, fag (even though i'm a girl) and dyke. it's crazy what my school is like... there's lots of neo-nazis. My friends have gotten notes in their lockers that have said "The devil's gonna rape you good, fag." "you're gay, go home." "Get out dyke!" and allsorts of other things... i try not to hate them, but it's hard.
"Id much rather to be hated for who I am than loved for who Im not."
It's impossbile to live a day without hearing the word gay used as an insult
I have yet to be officially out at school, so no one's called me a dyke or fag, but most often I'm called "little girl." It's a joke, so I don't mind! I am after all 5' 2" and 114 pounds...I feel tiny.
Whenever people agree with me I always feel I must be wrong.
This always leads to interesting conversations on my part!
I chose gay, but that's never been used against me derogatorily, nor has any of the aforementioned words.
mines fag and im a girl ~steph
what is little girl? is it like you wuss?
good que cuz i had an x call me that out of effection??? so ???
I don't really hear any of those at my school, and when I do occasionally hear "gay," it's not directed to me or anyone gay...it's just the whole, "That's so gay" thing. Yeh...so basically, I don't really hear any of them. Yay??
I don't mind 'gay' being used as an insult, but I am often just adressed as 'gay'
"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suf-fer-ing"
I've started thinking after hearing these words, and countless others, some just with the purpose to offend gays.
And I think we should use them more often ourselves! I mean, if we use them as normal words just to describe some one gay, they won't have the same meaning, nor the same effect when said. It's like we discredit the cruel words by accepting them as our own.
Food for thought.
You mean like we did with queer... yup, its happenin' :)
yea me and my friends call each other losers...actually everyone calls them self a loser. no one i kno takes it how it should be taken. its actually more of a joke than an isult to me...