Hi! I'm new!

PokemonGeek's picture

I've never been in a relationship before and would LOVE to get tips on how to date guys! Could any other gay guys help me out?

jeff's picture

Hi! I'm Old!

Depends on a lot of factors... age, location, closeted/out, interests/hobbies, etc. (e.g. a 15-year-old closeted kid in the middle of Montana whose parents are Christian fundamentalists, vs. a 21 y/o college kid in a liberal town who is newly out and open about everything)

Need more details to give some useful feedback.

PokemonGeek's picture

Well I'm 20 years old, go to

Well I'm 20 years old, go to community college, don't know how to approach those that attact me, and I live about an hour away from Pittsburgh, PA!

Poor is the man
Whose pleasures depend
On the permission of another
Love me, that's right, love me
I wanna be your baby
Wanting, needing, waiting
For you to justify my love
Hoping, praying
For you to justify my love
I'm open and ready
~Madonna

Dark-Lord's picture

Well, like oen of the people

Well, like oen of the people below said it depends on a lot of stuff. But get them somewher and ask them if they are GLBT or whatever. The boy I am with now totally suprised me. But i am still closeted about my BI-ness. I can't tell anyone. Not a soul that lives near me. They way they reacted when they assumed I was goth (by which they were right).....*rocks back and forth*

~DaRk-LoRd~

goatchunx's picture

Concur

Hello and welcome to the forum! I agree with Dark-Lord. Just get your potential date in a private place and ask if he's gay or bi, or a heterosexual M->F transgendered individual. Some guys find it awkward, but many, at least in my area, appreciate being asked first before you ask them out. Good luck!

And relationships, just pay attention, be on top of things. Above all, don't cheat or be a douche.

Cheers.

Q - "What is your sexual preference?"
A - "I have no sexual preference."

PokemonGeek's picture

But how do I ask someone out?

But how do I ask someone out? I've never done it before!!!!

Poor is the man
Whose pleasures depend
On the permission of another
Love me, that's right, love me
I wanna be your baby
Wanting, needing, waiting
For you to justify my love
Hoping, praying
For you to justify my love
I'm open and ready
~Madonna