Why do I want to be mean.

Gerardo's picture

So I have tried to be really nice, and I have pretty much succeded. There is this guy though, he hits on me and stares at me during class and talks to me about the stupidest things. So one day I was talking to him (more like he was talking to me) and he says, "I think Matthew is gay." I reply, "Andy, He's not gay. He will never be. Why do you think he is?" Then what maddened me was that he said, "Well he hangs out with you." WHAT A BITCHY THING TO SAY. (Andy claims he's not gay.) Then he says in his defense, "I mean I hang out with you and I'm not gay (What bull shit) I really think he is though." At that point I got up and walked away. This part is sorta mean, but one day I decided to be nice to him. I feel kinda bad about judging him because of this, oh well. He had a whole bunch of food stuck in his braces, and his teeth were all yellow. I just about barfed. He makes me mad because he takes advantage of the friends that he has and he takes advantage of his parents' money. He just makes me so mad sometimes. So lately I have been being mean to him.

This isn't like me. I don't like being mean, but it feels like an impulse to the way he acts.
I feel like telling him that he is a real bitch and that I think he is gay, although if I said that he would go insane. This makes me sound like a hypocrite. I just don't know what to do...

Comments

rowie's picture

if hes being an annoying twat

if hes being an annoying twat he kind of deserves someone being mean to him. just be as nice as you can manage lol, dont make comments about things someone didnt choose and cant change - like his braces or his sexuality (which is his right not to reveal if hes not ready - if he is in fact gay) or else you are sinking to his level. it confuses people far more and they actually think about why, if you ask them "why do you judge people so quickly - i dont like that" or something else about their ACTIONS because those are the thing they can control.

**you must be the change you wish to see in the world**

Dark-Lord's picture

Wanna know what id do?

(I LUV being mean.) I'd tell him "Well you hang out w/me and you claim you arent gay, so how in the fuck do you think you can judge someone that way when you do the same thing! So go fuck off w/ one of yoru lil whore girlfriends! *smack and walk away* OH AND BTW GO BRUSH YOUR FUCKING TEETH ASSWHIPE!!!!!!" LMAO try that. I'm a very sarcastic and mean person to certain people, and I will tell them what I think regardless of there feelings, they need to learn that you have feelings to and not to do shit like that.

~DaRk-LoRd~

Gerardo's picture

I'm trying to be nice dark lo

I'm trying to be nice dark lord >>

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raining men's picture

Mean

If you can't help being mean hten just do it at times. He deserved one mean comment - he was being a twat. What you need to not do is go over the top and carry on being mean - one insult is always enough to stop them being a twat without utterly obliterating their feelings. Try not to judge him though. Everyone is a twat at certain times (like that incident), not all the time (unless he's me of course)

"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suf-fer-ing"