A FIRST date?

Duct Tape Fairy's picture

I think I am going on a date, but I'm not sure. I've never been on
a date before, I've never kissed, or done anything. There's this girl
I've known for two years through orchestra, and she found my myspace
page and it turns out she is a lesbian too! I asked her if she wanted
to go see a movie and have lunch, and she said sure. However, I don't
know if it is a date, or if we are just hanging out as friends.
I'm kinda nervous either way. Neither of have dated, and I have no idea
what I am doing. I suck at flirting, so we shall see.
Wish me luck!


hellonwheels's picture

that's awesome! good luck w/ that.

Where've ya been? It's been a long time since you were on the site. It's cool that you got a "real" date this time. Peace.
-Mental wounds not healing, driving me insane, i'm goin' off the rails on a crazy train- the ozzman

raining men's picture


Make it a date and have fun

"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suf-fer-ing"

missbiosexual's picture

Look whether or not its a dat

Look whether or not its a date, just have fun. Ask her if it is a date. If it is pretend youre just hanging out. Wait for her to kiss you if your that nervous. Whatever u do, have a great time. TAlk to me anytimes you have a problem
~God made water,God made dirt, God made boys so girls to flirt~
~I'm bi and I'm proud~
~I'm tha biggest Drama Queen ever~

Duct Tape Fairy's picture


Thanks for the advice!
I'm crazy for crying and I'm crazy for trying and I'm crazy for loving you.
-Patsy Cline

the mouse that roared's picture

Maybe you haven't had the best opportunities to flirt yet...

I guess I would probably ask her whether or not it's a date. It's good to be clear about these things. If you don't know her too well, though, you might just want to keep this getting-to-know each other time friendly.

That's very exciting, though! Good luck!

Are you hanging on to something useless just because you think it's beautiful?
--William Zinsser

Hyacinthus's picture


Well to me it sounds like a date, but you should ask her if it is.

"The French are glad to die for love, they delight in fighting duels. But I like a man who lives, and gives expensive jewels"