Ok, there is this guy named Chad who works at the Dollar Store in the town that I live in. Im very interested in him, and it turns out he is gay. Im 18, and hes 20. I dont know how to approach him. Any ideas?
hey I'm (insert name here) hows it going? Want to hang out with mne and some friends this weekend?
I don't know see how it goes from there either he'll be in for it or not
Don't feel the need to define me...I can define myslef
Ask him to go to the movies. Say that there's this new flick out but your friends don't wanna watch and you don't wanna go alone. It's worth a shot.
Good luck with that!
I'm going to go out on a limb here... maybe go to the dollar store and talk to him? Friendship, conversation, etc., always come first. Otherwise, it's just, "Hi Chad, I know you're gay and work here, so I thought I'd come in and ask you out," which sounds stalkery/creepy. Just be casual and let whatever happens happen. Like, introduce yourself, and just be openly gay from the first sentence. Don't make it a guessing game, or make him go first or any of that BS, etc.