Okay, there's this guy at this Christian youthgroup. He's 15 and bisexual and generally a nice guy. However, he started an obsession over me... kind of wanting me to talk to him all the time on msn. He's been calling me on the phone for three days (twice I said I was busy because I was). He says he loves me, and hearts me more than anything... and he puts my photos as his display pictures and texts me during school (he goes to another school) saying how he can't concentrate because he's thinking about me. He's also saying how we wants to buy me all this stuff even though we just met each other for less than a week. At first his flirtations are quite flattering, but sometimes it comes to the extent that it's also making me a uncomfortable from the "too-openedness" and expectations that he has placed upon me. (There are other things he says/does I don't want to go into). I duno if he really loves me, but I don't feel it for him. I only like him as a friend. I feel guilty not telling him that, and letting him say all these things. I know I should tell him as early as possible so I won't hurt him as much when he finds out, but I don't know how he will take it. I hope I can make things clear to him some time. Do you guys think I should tell him on MSN? Or face to face at the youthgroup (we're not out at the youthgroup so it's going to be hard finding a time to talk to him private)? Other feedback is also welcome... I guess this is more of a personal reflection so I'll do it as a journal instead of a thread.