in terms of being gay and coming out, complete this sentence: IF IT WAS A PERFECT WORLD...

...everyone i came out to would be fine with it
8% (8 votes)
...everyone would be queer
8% (8 votes)
...being queer wouldnt be a big deal
54% (53 votes)
...no-one would ever find out
0% (0 votes)
...people would guess so i wouldnt need to come out
0% (0 votes)
...id be straight
5% (5 votes)
...only straight people would need to come out
2% (2 votes)
...no-one would need to come out
19% (19 votes)
...other (yeah i know my choices are limited)
3% (3 votes)
Total votes: 98

Comments

Hobbit's picture

i've come out in two differen

i've come out in two different cases, and it seems just a general pain in the butt to me so I would love if it was assumed that people were either gay, straight, or somewhere in between. that way people wouldn't need to be labeled or come out.

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unsure pixie's picture

i chose other because i would

i chose other because i would choose that everyone knew who they truly are and the world was okay with that... i mean me personally i dont know who i am...

to love me is like suicide...

Adam A's picture

if it was a perfect world we

if it was a perfect world we wouldn't need to take the action of "coming out", hell we wouldn't even need to make a point out of not being heterosexual, we wouldn't need to "explain" ourselves to anyone and we wouldn't need to hide who we are. but...it's not a perfect world, only i'm perfect
take care
adam

Icarus's picture

I second Adam's opinion.

I second Adam's opinion.

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kartovla's picture

and i third it "if young lo

and i third it
"if young love is just a game then i must have missed the kick off"

BryceW331's picture

Fourth!

I'll support.

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Adam A's picture

yay i'm carismatic!

yay i'm carismatic!

BryceW331's picture

Don't get ideas!

You may be charismatic, but you simply made sense! Lol, how's the weather up there on your high horse? Hmm?

98 percent of the teenage population will try, does, or has tried smoking pot. If you are one of the 2 percent who hasn't, copy and paste this into your signature.

Adam A's picture

daMN!

way to point out my spelling mistake! GEEZE U"R OUT TO GET ME AREN'T YOU!? i'm kidding dude!
up on my high horse, tis pretty fucking nice, not too cold, not too hot, sunny, clear skies, no pollution, no noise from traffic, it's just peachy babe!
take care
adam

Anonymous's picture

In my prfect world sexuality

In my prfect world sexuality would be fluid, and the concept of normal sexuality would be destroyed.

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hebrew freak's picture

i think the fact that we even

i think the fact that we even have to come out, or tell people our sexuality is just absurd. i tend to think of it like this...

one day, my friend and i were talking about the both of us coming out, and i was trying to prove my point about why i thought the whole idea was stupid. so this is what i said.

sexuality is sort of like a blood type. when i'm meeting someone new, i dont go up to them and say, "hi, my name is becca, i'm O positive" it's ridiculous. i know that sexuality is just as natural as our blood type. so why should i have to say "hi, my name is becca, i'm a lesbian"? i just dont see the point.

i mean, if someone asks, of course i'd tell them. but i dont think it should be something that i have to introdce.

she's the mistake i would always gladly continue making

yep_im_a_stalker's picture

well...in a perfect world eve

well...in a perfect world everyone would be bisexual is my opinion. i mean you wouldnt have to come out and everyone would be capable of liking anyone else.

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Adam A's picture

my comment was still so the b

my comment was still so the best

EGLolita's picture

No one would care, it wouldn'

No one would care, it wouldn't matter, and parents wouldn't try to impress on their young children "Girls marry boys, boys marry girls"
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utter_insanity's picture

Being gay wouldn't be such a big deal

Everybody would just accept gay people for who they are and let us live our lives without constantly saying things like, "Down with gay marriage! We need to protect straight unions from this abomination!" Either that, or if somebody had a problem with somebody else being gay, then they'd just be honest and tell you that and not freak out or anything.

~~Gay And Here To Stay~~
"What's this little lie/They keep on telling me/It's just another high..." ~ "Mama I'm Strange", by Melissa Etheridge