In a relationship, who would you want to make the first move? (please generalize) And what's your gender?

In general I would want to make the first move, I'm a girl
15% (9 votes)
In general I would want to make the first move, I'm a boy
6% (4 votes)
In general I would want to make the first move, I describe myself as something other than girl or boy
0% (0 votes)
In general I would want the other person to make the first move, I'm a girl
42% (26 votes)
In general I would want the other person to make the first move, I'm a boy
31% (19 votes)
In general I would want the other person to make the first move, I describe myself as something other than girl or boy
0% (0 votes)
other (please comment)
6% (4 votes)
Total votes: 62

Comments

sunset rose's picture

It depends,for instance I wou

It depends,for instance I wouldn't have known my current partner existed if they hadn't made the first move because they are in the grade below me. I would say,"you make the first move, I'll take it from there." However, I marked I would want to make the first move because I'm more likely to do that than the average person. For instance, first day back at school if I spot someone amiable at another table I would have no problem walking over, introducing myself, and inviting them to hang out at recess.
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Disney's picture

I'm a boy and voted that I'd

I'm a boy and voted that I'd want the other person to make the first move. I really love that idea of being the one to lay my head down against my partner's chest and them be the one to come give me the hugs and be more domineering I guess. I can see myself doing all that too, and would want to do it, but at this point I feel so... gay love neglected that for my first relationship I don't think I'd be up to/have the initiative to be the one to mkae the first moves.

-J, boy, gay and 16 all the way. Just not out to anyone yet. I guess my sig could use some work.

PT's picture

uh

im lost... lol... i would because i like to make the first moves all the time... :D... i just put other... i get confused a little easy...

Adam A's picture

i like making a guy think he

i like making a guy think he made the first move!! :P

raining men's picture

If

If the relationship is already there then yes i would want to make the first move

"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suf-fer-ing"

the mouse that roared's picture

either way

I think I would like both making the first move and having that move made upon me. I'm a bit shy, so I'm not sure if I actually would make the first move.

No one has a right to sit down and feel hopeless; there is too much work to do.--Dorothy Day

jojojo's picture

"other"

make first move together