kg's picture

Today sucked. Really, really hard.

So I woke up from a dream that my best friend/crush (who used to like my ex/her best friend—let’s call her S) and my ex (L) went on a date and I was just paranoid and blah blah blah. OMG ARE THEY DATING BEHIND MY BACK?? And the whole bit.

So then I talked to S online for a couple of hours. We had a bit of a fight but she ended up explaining that she’s questioning hXXXXXc and it’s REALLY scaring her. Which lead to her telling me that she “might


ForeverEndedToday's picture

i hope this helps

I think she needs time. Its always scary to be questioning. But i dont think it was the smartest thing for her not to take some stuff to read from you cause that stuff helps so much. Just be there for her and if she wants to talk about it talk about it but if she doesnt leave it alone. The same thing happened to me. I had a crush on a "straight" girl and i told her. it took 3 months but she finally asked me out. You just got to be Extremely Patient even though it sucks so bad. I hope you end up with her.

But I cant do the talks like they talk on my tv screen
I cant do a love song not the way you song them to me
I cant do everything but I would do anything for you
Oh no I cant do anything except be in love with you

whateversexual_llama's picture

Just tell her over and over a

Just tell her over and over again that there's nothing wrong with her. That's all anyone really wants to hear, is that they are real and whole and there's nothing, absolutely nothing wrong with being who they are. Aside from that, just give her time, and love (Not girlfriend love, just good ol' love), and she should be ok. Questioning is scary.

Be yourself. Because if you're busy being someone else, then who's gonna be you?

savanh_person's picture

give her time yes? "The tr

give her time yes?

"The tragic consequences of life can be overcome by the magical strength that resides in the human heart." - Bless Me Ultima