Shit,bum,shit !!

the ghost's picture

My friend who I referred to in my previous entries whom I thought about telling of my queerness now seems to
be kind off ignoring me.I'm not sure if its cause she has guessed.We were joking the other night and she
said oh your so gay!I didn't agree or deny it.It kind of hung in the air for a few mins untill we were
distracted by something else.Then later on she jokingly called me a dyke which I also did not respond to.

However we spent several hours together afterwards and she seemed fine.We normally chat online in the
evenings,but since that night she has been really cold towards me.She doesn't answer my messages or if she
does its with a one word answer.I haven't seen her since either.I really was sure she would be fine if she
found out.I'm not even sure she knows.

I don't think I've done anything else to piss her off.I know I should just ask her whats going on,but to
be honest I think I'm afraid of the answer.I know if she is a good friend she will love me for me,but I just
wish that I didn't have to deal with this now.


Adam A's picture

hm, man friends suck! i think

hm, man friends suck! i think you shouldn't worry about it too much, sometimes it's just them being busy or tiered or something like that, nothing against you kind of thing you know?
give it time, if it stays bad then you'll have to confront her about it, and if you want me to bash her up, i will!

Hyacinthus's picture


You should just ask her what is wrong. I mean sure you could ignore this but in the end won't it come out eventually? It is best just to talk about it with her. I know you don't wanna deal with this, but we often have to deal with things we don't like. That's part of life.

"Persuasive speech, and more persuasive sighs,
Silence that spoke, and eloquence of eyes."
- The Iliad (bk. XX, l. 315), (Bryant's translation)

SilentBlue's picture

I have a friend who does that

I have a friend who does that kind of too. She'll say I'm so gay or whatever and wait for my reation and when I just laugh or go along with it sometimes she goes weird....but you know...shes kinda weird haha! I wouldn't worry about it too much yet, but ask her if it continues on.