Friends

Uncertain's picture

I'm having some confusion about my friends, I don't know if some of them are good friends or not... I hate it when friends clash and argue... I hate it when they talk behind people's back... I hate it when they change and become different... I hate it when they're up themselves... I hate it when they are manipulative... I hate it when they are blind to other's thoughts/needs... I hate to label them just good or bad, or to rate them better or worse... I hate it when they disappoint because expectations are not met... blah blah blah so much more on my mind I just don't know how to get it down >< Friends are confusing and I hate it so much, but I also love them too. I confuse myself.

P.S. side note, friend's relationship problems just never really stop... and I'm always in the middle of it

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hebrew freak's picture

i totally get you. quite oft

i totally get you. quite often, i feel the need to just strangle a couple of my friends. they tend to ignore me and not include me. i love them, i've known them for years now. but sometimes i just wanna hurt them. badly.

*she's the mistake i would always gladly continue making*

raining men's picture

So

So in other words you hate it when you're friends are people? Welcome to the dark side of the maxigon dude...
Yeah they often are wankers. Sorry. Ride through man

"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suf-fer-ing"

wild-blue-yonder's picture

:( sorry

I'm sorry. It's so hard with friends... when someone you don't know is being a jerk, you can just shrug it off and be like, what's their problem... but when it's your friends...

I don't know what to tell you. I hope things get better. Remember that they are human, and will mess up from time to time, but if they continually disrespect your needs or feelings, maybe it would be a good idea to start thinking of them as just people to have fun with, and less as best-friend people. But it's up to you - they mean enough to you that you're willing to ride it out, good for you.