Well I need your help. I have a friend..who is also my roommate and as much as i love her...she insists that i am gay...which is not the problem, because she is, but the problem is that i am bi not gay..how do i tell her that. and when i have she jsut never seems to get it. the otehr part of my problem is that i am not sure that i am actually bi or gay for that matter...everytime i finally settle about who i think i like..things get confusing again...does the cycle ever end??