WHY i cant i find someone special

bryanisindie's picture

for once in my life, well im only 16, but i just want to be in a decent relationship. i say things like that all the time but when i find someone i turn them away. i dont know what my problem is and i just need someone to talk to and someone who will listen

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oldfoxbob's picture

Time is what it takes.

Hey your only what...16? Give your self time to find a life partner.
It took me until I was 28 to find the right one. We have been together now over 16 years. So...with time all good things will come to you as they say. Right now it is your hormones talking. Sex is on your mind almost 24/7 right?
When you dont find the right person you get frustrated, mad, upset, and so forth. That is normal guy...give it time...That prince charming will be there for you some day but not just now. You will know when you find him I can assure you. So for now date, have fun, have "SAFE" sex, and enjoy life as it comes to you. Dont worry your self sick over it as it will happen.
Also any time you need to talk to a real councilor, I am here at least twice a week to answer questions, give advise and so on. You can priv me here or to my email address of "atunionbob@gmail.com " if you want.
I am 54, a minister, Gay, x-cop. I dont judge anyone, I just try to help as best as I can, whoever I can. That is just me I guess.
Anyway
Take care and take it slow.
oldfoxbob
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ps

Sorry That should be lady not lad , I usually use the male sence as I am male, didnt mean to offend in any way.
ofb
Genius is not a sign of intelligence, but rather
that of common sense.

oldfoxbob's picture

ps

Sorry That should be lady not lad , I usually use the male sence as I am male, didnt mean to offend in any way.
ofb
Genius is not a sign of intelligence, but rather
that of common sense.