pink hair on girls's picture

so the guy on IM who likes me (i explained in an earlier post) was gonna ask out this girl and then i'd be off the hook. but she said NO!!!! we figured we should be friends while he was going out with lauren, but now hes gonna want to be more. dammit!!!!!!


patnelsonchilds's picture

If he continues to pursue

If he continues to pursue you, it is your responsibility to set him, pardon the pun, straight. Just tell him he's a great guy, but you're not interested in him "in that way".

Sorry the other plan didn't work out.

- Pat Nelson Childs
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Feather's picture


Perhaps you can gently break it to him that he is a wonderful person whom you would love to stay friends with, but that you really are not able to imagine yourself becoming anything 'more'.