I am not a sasquatch!

msquared's picture

Well...I'm not!

First of all, here's a gynormous thank you to everyone who gave me advice on my boy queries! It was mucho helpful. So I asked this rapscallion out, but I had to over the myspizzle since I don't know his phone number or see him in school. Three [painful] days passed and I received no reply, so I sent him a message saying, "You know, if you don't wanna go out, then just say it, man. Sweet Jesus, it's a no, not a death sentence!" THEN he replied and said he was "busy" for the past few days [yet it said he was online like every time I got on...] and this weekend he's going to Florida to see his sister so he can't date it up with me. He didn't say anything else, such as, "Maybe next week..." or things of that nature. Bad sign, amigos? I kinda get the feeling he's not into me, because if he was he probably would've had the courtesy to reply to my request sooner. But I'd feel like I was letting a chance slip away if I just dropped my badgering here, so I think I'm going to ask him how his schedule is next week. Do ye approve, citizens o' the Oasis?


the ghost's picture


One last try can't hurt. I say go for it and ask again!Good luck man!

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent-Eleanor Roosevelt

wallflower's picture

Do try and get an outright

Do try and get an outright answer from him. All the best!

patnelsonchilds's picture

Sure. One more shot. If it's

Sure. One more shot. If it's no, then I'd say you've got a pretty definite answer, even if he won't come out and say it. I think that many in here would agree with me that it's his loss if he declines though, cuz you're a really great guy.

- Pat Nelson Childs
"bringing strong gay
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raining men's picture


Looks like there probably isn't going to be anything. Sorry man. Have another try if you want but it doesn't look as if its going anywhere. Good luck anyway

"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suf-fer-ing"

jeff's picture


I would just suggest that you flip the thought process a bit, and stop letting him control questions of your self-worth. The issue is ultimately whether there is chemistry between you two and whether HE is worthy of YOU, Matt.

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