January 4, 20006 Thursday.

Chibi_wolf_fang's picture

Dear, anyone,

well i really need some advice on finding a BF or GF (perferably BF as of right now atleast)


raining men's picture


Well good luck is about all I can offer you

"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suf-fer-ing"

patnelsonchilds's picture

I'm afraid the old adage is

I'm afraid the old adage is usually true: the harder you look for a boyfriend, the less likely you are to find one.

Therefore my advice is to work on being happy with who you are, cultivate hobbies, be open, make lots of friends and get out there and join in activities that will expand your horizons and your social circle. While you're busy doing all these things, you'll find that you meet all kinds of people, one of whom might be that special guy (or girl).

I know that advice always sounds lame. It certainly did to me when I was younger. But the truth is...it's the truth. People that are friendly, outgoing, open to new things, and happy with who they are tend to draw people to them, which naturally increases their chances of finding a significant other. It's not magic, just psychology.

- Pat Nelson Childs
"bringing strong gay
characters to Sci-Fi & Fantasy"