andyouwillknowmebythesoundofmyname's picture

Valentines's was.....interesting

1) Went on a lovely outting/not a date-but really freakin felt like a date nice dinner with two friends (a guy and a girl).

and then this morning I found a wonderfull valentine under my door with a bunch of flowers.
It is not from any of my crushes, and I have many, but from someone who I least suspected.
I can't believe it.

It was a freakingly funny valentine too. One of those that took a LOT of thought and pinned my sense of humor exactly. Home-made, and required a lot of thought.
I really wasn't attracted to this guy at all, but this has really got me thinking.

He really makes me laugh, but I have been a lot more interested in girls lately.
Not attracted to him, really, but this was completely out of the blue.

I feel completely blindsided! I don't really want to turn him down just because I have NO IDEA what my own feelings for him are.


(or just some kind words of support)

Oh yeah
ALSO my horoscope was eerily real today:

Today someone's brilliant one-liner will do more than tickle your funny bone; it will ignite a tiny spark in your heart. Not everyone realizes how having fun can lead to having a romance -- though you've always understood the connection, haven't you? Your ideal mate is likelier to be someone who makes you smile than someone who makes you swoon. Remember this when you're considering which crushes to pursue. Hold off on accepting an invitation from anyone who's coming on too strong.


taste the rainbow's picture

ok, here's some words of

ok, here's some words of support!

No rush. Unless he asks for a responce, you don't have to answer. You could always just leave it alone for now until it resurfaces. However that could possibly create future obstacles.

Second choice would be to confront him, tell him thanks for the flowers and homemade card, and ask him how he feels about things, ie you/ ask him if what he wrote in the card is true blah blah blah. Then, pretty much just tell him how you honestly feel. That you dont' know what your feelings are for him, that you need time/ everything you pretty much just wrote/ what ever is necessary to say at the time, it'll come, you'll be fine :)