In my interview with Byron Katie (which you should read before posting here), she mentioned:
"You (could) have this whole list with "Being gay or lesbian means..." and put that list that they struggle with in their little hearts. We could walk through inquiry on it, and show them how to do every single one of them themselves... it doesn't mean they would do it. It would just show the four questions and the turnaround."
So, I figured I'd invite people to try it here. Let's generate a list of common "stressful thoughts" that we have about what it means to be gay or lesbian, and then we could explore those thoughts more fully.
What do you think?