Cops caught us in the back seat.................talking?

frizzfro45's picture

Okay, I guess I need a little help or something. I have this girlfriend, who I am totally in love with. Yes, I do know that there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. I am not here to discuss whether i am in love with her or not, because I know how I feel, so we are moving onward. I am saying I am in love with her, and I need you to believe that for this. So, we are all talk, you know, we say all these things, we want to go a little further, but what exactly is a little further? We kiss, makeout, and we are getting close to further, but I don't know what it is exactly. I am kind of nervous to go further, but I really want to. I guess I want to know what further is, and niether of us really have a clue. One more thing, we never have anywhere to be alone. We don' tgo to her house, she has a big family, and here, my sister is always home, or my dad is always home, and i have to keep my door open. The only time we have alone is the ride home, and we almost got caught the other day by the cops, it was interesting, but, anyway, if we aren't here, we are with our friends, and that isn't so bad, cuz they don't care, but nothing happens, as much as we want it to. I just don't know what to do, i guess. I am going on vacation for about a week and won't see my gf for that time, i will have her sweatshirt and hat, but does anyone have any suggestions as to how i can try to not miss her?


BlueDevilWannaBe's picture

not missing her, hmm.....

take it from someone's who's gone 5 months straight before without seeing my girlfriend, and on average has to go about 1 and 1/2 months btw everytime i see her..... there's really no way you can prepare for it. just grit your teeth and give it hell. i also feel your pain with the whole not having anywhere to go alone thing, that's my whole relationship's life's story. once again, grit teeth. in that case, become innovative. or start to not give a damn who's around when you're doing "stuff" with eachother.

electricity's picture

First off, love your icon.

First off, love your icon. I seriously miss watching that show every Friday, but I'll be patient.

If you guys are both in love with eachother and have discussed it, then nerves will probably be eliminated once you guys get going [for lack of a better way to word that.] Just a guess. As for a place... hell, I don't know. A car in a parking lot has been done before, so, as long as the cops don't catch you that looks like your only option. Or if you're old enough... a hotel room.

As for missing her, I don't know. It's only a week [easier said] and if you get to chat with her via cell phone, then you'll probably do fine. It'll be nice having something to look forward to coming home to, as well.

Toph's picture

Give her a teddy bear,

Give her a teddy bear, pillow, (or whatever) and have her sleep with it. When she or you goes (can't remember which) away ask her if you can borrow it. Then you'll have her smell with you. So, it'll feel she's kinda there with you? I dunno if it works that way because I can't smell, but a past friend of mine used to like my things because they smelled like me. So, it might work for you.

About the alone to go further thing, I'm sorry I can't help you there. Do your parents know you're into girls? If not, ask if you can sleep over. Always a great chance to get things done ;)

~May the spirits guide your every assure you please her in all the right places XD