There is this boy in my grade named Ari who I've become pretty good friends with. He doesn't know that I'm gay (I call myself gay even though I'm a girl) I'm pretty sure he's straight. So, today we were talking about what movies we liked and I said that I didn't see movies that often. Then he said that I should see a movie with him some time. Is this him asking me out for a date? Should I come out to him? If I came out to him would that make him realize that the reason that I would never date him has nothing to do with him but rather with me and my sexuality or would he take out his disapiontment by being an asshole?