ATTRACTION...attention

her_secret_wish's picture

At school it was 4th period right, im sitting outside my class and i saw these two girls walking past me..

so i questioned myself as to what attracts me to girls.

i found it amusing..
so what is it that attracts you to whoever it is??

raining men's picture

I 'unno

I don't know. Everything?

"Sexual intercourse began in nineteen sixty-three (which was rather too late for me)"

jeff's picture

umm...

Easy... Pheromones.

her_secret_wish's picture

lol

jeff, what are pheromones?

-Ruby-'s picture

:o) so many, many things...

her looks, her voice, her scent, how she moves...
general female yumminess... certain girls just got it goin on.

joemondragon's picture

The eyes. Simple as that.

The eyes. When I first saw my crushes deep blue eyes, it was like "DAMN!". There's more to it than that (personallity, face, etc.), but that's the simplest and most family appropriate answer I can give.

"A friend is someone who bails you out of jail; a best friend is someone who stands in the cell next to you and says 'that was freakin' awesome'"
-Dr. Jamie Morris

Toph's picture

Oh, I just love it when she

Oh, I just love it when she has that perfect skin tone with that soft, smooth look that makes you want to hold her and stroke her cheek. Her beautiful hair that just makes you want to pet her. Her beautiful eyes that cause you to stare into them when you talk to her, even if you feel kinda obsessive. Her soft, soothing voice that has that chipper and cheery tone to it. Oh gosh, so many things that it's impossible to name all.

~May the spirits guide your every move...to assure you please her in all the right places XD

pomegranate's picture

oh god...

eyes, voice, body, how she moves, how i feel when I'm around her, sense of humour, personality, softness, strength, ambition.....too many things. how can i name them all?

Lol-taire's picture

Conversation

People who can talk well. Witty, clever people who can talk really well and can argue really well. Not people like me who just talk and talk and talk and talk and talk and talk. People who are intelligent and funny in conversation.

And musicians. Anyone on stage.

And slightly androgynous looking girls and confident girls and girls who are slightly unorthodox looking.

icantpredictthefuture002's picture

i think what attracts me to

i think what attracts me to girls is that they are so much more mature then guys.. they arnt so ubsessive with sex and are sweet and understand how you feel, because males dont understand how our emotions and body works but when your with a girl they understand things alot of men dont, because yet again they are female too...

Midnight's picture

Punks

This sounds cliche but I really don't look much at what they look like I've dated people who have all looked different. Most of the time I like punk girls don't know why but theres something about them that I like. Maybe because their different or the way they dress. Most of the punk chicks at our school dye their hair and I liked hair dye. Not like normal colors. And I like it to be multiple colors. Colors like yellow, green, blue, white,red ect... I really like light blue hair with a light green or coal/jet black with light blue. I think dark blue and white. I know its a little weird that I think girls with crazy hair are hot. I really like quite people because it makes me have to figure them out it keeps me interested. I also like their eyes they have to have nice eyes I like dark brown eyes my friends think I'm crazy because they all like the blue eyes I don't know brown eyes are just mystery I guess. The most important to me would be who they are. I like someone smart,funny, laughs a lot, can take a joke, caring, nice, likes me for who I am, and we have a good time together no matter what were doing. Another BIG thing that I care about would be their need. I want them to need me. I want them to want me and depend on me, like someone they can always turn to. I want someone who will trust me and be able to tell me anything. Not argumentive I find that to be the worst thing in people I hate people who like to argue.

Icarus's picture

to be honest, i don't know.

to be honest, i don't know. i've asked myself the same question many a time. but then i'm in her company, and it's just like...*angels singing* you're perfection....

it's her eyes...those damn, big, innocent green eyes that just seem to look right through you...and her smile, her sweet little grin that makes you feel like you're the only person in the world....and her laugh, her cute, quirky giggle you can hear anywhere.....and her face, that gorgeous artist's portrait worthy face with the adorable button nose and those lips, lawd-a-mercy no way i could talk about her and not mention those lips that look like they were made for kissin'.

it's just her....there's something about her that i don't feel around other girls. we just connect on a level i've never felt before with anyone....

"Yes! No! Oh, damn!"

felicia's picture

environmentalist...seriously

environmentalist turn me on personally...peoplew who don't recycle, leave the lights on and disrespect the earth turn me off. that being said, a perfect smile with straight teeth that shine white like pearls also makes me do a double take. and so do freclkes across the bridge of the nose, and dimples when they smile... I'm into details like that. Oh! and they have to be taller than me, which isn't a big deal cause I'm like, five foot 3...

allColorsoftherainbow's picture

butch

the first thing that catches my eye is the look, I especially have a thing for butch girls.

utter_insanity's picture

Well...

I like goofy girls. Girls who are outgoing and do bizarre things that no one else would ever think of doing. I think that is so cute. I also love sweet, kind girls, the kind who are nice to everyone, even if the other person isn't nice back. And a pretty face helps, too. It doesn't take much for me, just a pleasant look about their faces. I dunno what it is. Sort of a glow, maybe? Kind of like there's a light shining above their heads saying, "Pay attention to me! I'm pretty!" I know that's a bad explanation, but it's what I feel.


"Women in rubber will ALWAYS be flirting with me!" --Maureen in the musical RENT

Shenlong the Arcane's picture

There just is something

There just is something about people I'm attracted too that's... different. Like girls, they're girls! Guys..... They're different than girls! Do I win?

~Rob Halford'll kick your ass~

5thstory's picture

I totally fall for the way

I totally fall for the way someone walks. I mean, a guy walking with a strong, decided pace *drools* people shouldn't slouch. The eyes and the neck can also be like really sexy. Obviously, in the end, whoever is the best at chatting's is the best one.

" . . . The sun does not shine upon this fair earth to meet frowning eyes, depend upon it." Charles Dickens - Solo quiero verte bailar, girando, girando, girando.

saash's picture

It's easy...

Boobs.

tayz's picture

Someone able to have an

Someone able to have an intellectual conversation.
A girl that's challenging and complicated.
'Alternative' girls and crazy and dyed hair catch my eye real fast.
Oh oh oh. And I'm a sucker for eyes.
I seem to have a soft spot for girls with low self esteem but funnily enough, my girlfriend is a self confident arrogant bitch :P

But basically I love girls that are different and individual and quirky.
Oh. And they've gotta love to have fun =]

lil_will87902's picture

for me

well in a guy the eyes. i love blue eyes and of course their body and face who doesnt like their guy hot. but personality too, even if they are dead gorgeous if theyre a jerk then theyre not for me. but bassically i agree with every one else (just i go more for preppy ppl punk ppl scare me sorry guys. just in my life punk and prep dont mix. unless i get to know u and ur just amazing then it doesnt matter if ur goth or wutever.) thats alls i gots to say. TRY 2 BE CUTE BUT i'LL ALWAYS BE HAWT!!!! D.T.S BiiOTCH3Z!!!!

joemondragon's picture

I go for the cute, not hot

I go for the cute, not hot factor personally. To each's own I guess.

"A friend is someone who bails you out of jail; a best friend is someone who stands in the cell next to you and says 'that was freakin' awesome'"
-Dr. Jamie Morris

lil_will87902's picture

for me

well in a guy the eyes. i love blue eyes and of course their body and face who doesnt like their guy hot. but personality too, even if they are dead gorgeous if theyre a jerk then theyre not for me. but bassically i agree with every one else (just i go more for preppy ppl punk ppl scare me sorry guys. just in my life punk and prep dont mix. unless i get to know u and ur just amazing then it doesnt matter if ur goth or wutever.) thats alls i gots to say. TRY 2 BE CUTE BUT i'LL ALWAYS BE HAWT!!!! D.T.S BiiOTCH3Z!!!!

lil_will87902's picture

for me

well in a guy the eyes. i love blue eyes and of course their body and face who doesnt like their guy hot. but personality too, even if they are dead gorgeous if theyre a jerk then theyre not for me. but bassically i agree with every one else (just i go more for preppy ppl punk ppl scare me sorry guys. just in my life punk and prep dont mix. unless i get to know u and ur just amazing then it doesnt matter if ur goth or wutever.) thats alls i gots to say. TRY 2 BE CUTE BUT i'LL ALWAYS BE HAWT!!!! D.T.S BiiOTCH3Z!!!!

lil_will87902's picture

for me

well in a guy the eyes. i love blue eyes and of course their body and face who doesnt like their guy hot. but personality too, even if they are dead gorgeous if theyre a jerk then theyre not for me. but bassically i agree with every one else (just i go more for preppy ppl punk ppl scare me sorry guys. just in my life punk and prep dont mix. unless i get to know u and ur just amazing then it doesnt matter if ur goth or wutever.) thats alls i gots to say. TRY 2 BE CUTE BUT i'LL ALWAYS BE HAWT!!!! D.T.S BiiOTCH3Z!!!!

lil_will87902's picture

for me

well in a guy the eyes. i love blue eyes and of course their body and face who doesnt like their guy hot. but personality too, even if they are dead gorgeous if theyre a jerk then theyre not for me. but bassically i agree with every one else (just i go more for preppy ppl punk ppl scare me sorry guys. just in my life punk and prep dont mix. unless i get to know u and ur just amazing then it doesnt matter if ur goth or wutever.) thats alls i gots to say. TRY 2 BE CUTE BUT i'LL ALWAYS BE HAWT!!!! D.T.S BiiOTCH3Z!!!!

lil_will87902's picture

for me

well in a guy the eyes. i love blue eyes and of course their body and face who doesnt like their guy hot. but personality too, even if they are dead gorgeous if theyre a jerk then theyre not for me. but bassically i agree with every one else (just i go more for preppy ppl punk ppl scare me sorry guys. just in my life punk and prep dont mix. unless i get to know u and ur just amazing then it doesnt matter if ur goth or wutever.) thats alls i gots to say. TRY 2 BE CUTE BUT i'LL ALWAYS BE HAWT!!!! D.T.S BiiOTCH3Z!!!!

lil_will87902's picture

for me

well in a guy the eyes. i love blue eyes and of course their body and face who doesnt like their guy hot. but personality too, even if they are dead gorgeous if theyre a jerk then theyre not for me. but bassically i agree with every one else (just i go more for preppy ppl punk ppl scare me sorry guys. just in my life punk and prep dont mix. unless i get to know u and ur just amazing then it doesnt matter if ur goth or wutever.) thats alls i gots to say. TRY 2 BE CUTE BUT i'LL ALWAYS BE HAWT!!!! D.T.S BiiOTCH3Z!!!!

mosaic of fire's picture

sensitivity. creativity.

sensitivity. creativity. anything artsy... compassion especially. but they've got to be strong mentally, emotionally, and physically. i think a balance between body, mind and spirit is what i look for the most in a guy. i'm not attracted to guys who have no depth to their character.. they've got to have reason and purpose. and confidence.

but maybe i'm describing a god, lol. i can't find a gay guy like that where i'm around.

Imstillhere's picture

its sort of

its sort of indiscribable...its just sort of everything. like the way she smiles and the way her eyes look when shes annoyed XD and just this glow around her

her_secret_wish's picture

ok

wow, it seams its punks and eyes that do it all for you... GUYS JOIN IN!

xxxxx