I know that most people who are in the closet choose to be so because they are afraid of the reactions they will get from their friends, family, peers, etc. or they are just not comfortable in their own skin. However, does anyone here (who is comfortable with their being gay) feel that it's just nobody else's business or that it's just not something that they want to make the focus of their life? (I'm not saying I feel this way, but I'm just curious because I heard someone say this awhile ago). Also, does being "closeted" mean that absolutely nobody knows, or that you're just not completely open about it?