so i just broke up with my girlfriend of about 10 months. it was my decision for various reasons but it still sucks. it was my first real relationship and i was kind of inexperienced in the field, so i fell pretty hard for this girl. i still love her but i really need to let her go. none of my friends know about our relationship because she wasnt comfortable with others knowing, so theres really no one i can turn to. what can i do/ how can i cope with the breakup?