I've decided to look for my first boyfriend and starting tomorrow I'll start taking steps toward making it happen. First on the list is changing the way I look, or more specifically things about myself that may give off the wrong image. For example, I only have my left ear pierced which, I'm under the impression, means I'm straight. So tomorrow I think I'm going to get my right ear pierced. As far as fashion goes, well I don't know a thing about fashion. I've been doing the punk thing so long and haven't really changed it up. I don't really know what vibe that sends off but I hope it's not the wrong one. If anyone has any suggestions on this I'm open for ideas. I mean what shouts "Hey I'm a single gay punk guy" other than a shirt with that direct quote?
Another thing I've decided to change is where I go socially. I've decided to join the SAGE club (Straights and Gays for Equality) at my college and try to spend more time out in hopes of meeting someone. The thing is I don't know if there are any "gay clubs" or "gay bars" near where I live and even if there were I'm not old enough to drink and can't dance (though I'm working on that one). Where can I meet a gay guy outside of places that have gay in their title?
Finally I've decided to start going to the YMCA and put that membership my family got to good use. I don't necessarily have the perfect body. I'm overly skinny and this isn't really attractive unless some of me is muscle.
Does anyone have any other suggestions about any of this? I appreciate any help I can get.