Sometimes I think I don't really want a gf cuz I'm afraid she'll leave due to me not being into nightlife/social scenes,or b/c I'm not into talking/dwelling on every little feeling. I guess I feel like her just being w/me won't be enough. Just let me be me and don't ? why I'm feeling a way or what I'm thinking. I HATE people who do that! Ooh,you say you feel this/think that,but I know what you're REALLY feeling shit. Although,I do know that I don't see every gf as being "The 1" unless I love her/she loves me and have been together for a long time( a year or more) and only then will I think about the future(which does NOT mean marriage),just long term thinking for the relationship. I do want a passionate relationship when it comes to dating,you know? The-can't-wait-to-get-naked-and feel-our-skin-bodies-together-type of passion/lust/desire. When I feel that for some1(and hopefully,her me) will she be 1 I 'consider" for long term also. At least that's my ideal kind of relationship,w/some1 I still desire after some time. I know I'm not going to feel the above for every gf,you know? I do know that I want a RL gf,not online. If we were to have a fight,I wanna be able to say I didn't like seeing her walk away,not I had to watch her...log off. I'm never going to ask for space when it comes to online,you know? There's certain things I'll say/do online that I wouldn't do in RL and it doesn't really matter. Like if I have probs. w/some1,I'll still talk to them online b/c they can't get to me as if they were face to face w/me,you know? I just want a gf I can touch,kiss,hang out,see her smile,be w/her and learn her habits and she mine.