"Hmm, I didn't even know you were a lesbian, no one ever told me."
- said by my cousin Stephen in the cafeteria at the U of A hospital
Ok, for starters, the guys in my (mom's side of the) family don't gossip much. But seriously, who cares? He doesn't, and that's cool. I ABHOR making a fuss about it. I don't "look gay" and I'm perfectly goddamn fine with not yelling it to the damn world. I mean, yay, I date girls, it's not something to make a fuss about. Gay pride? Gay indifference.
I'm not ashamed, I'm happy with being gay. But being flamboyant? Not my style. Cause really, who honestly cares? Be happy I'm dating a good person, not avidly excited to discuss what it's "like to, you know, date other chicks." That just ain't my scene, people.