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wheels148's picture

Okay brace yourself I am on a rant, straight bashing really! I DON'T do this often but I am annoyed! Why is it that straight woman are FOREVER talking about their boyfriends/husbands and why does this bug me...
1) because they could do so with out being judged or even giving it a second thought and
2) because they take it for granted the ability to talk openly about their partners I mean I have been out two years and I am still uncortable mentioning name of female partners you know I am single and have been since coming out soo that could be some of this too

I am scared I am gonna get stood up tommorow plans have yet to be confirmed by her sooo i dunno?

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Lol-taire's picture

Maybe they do it for the

Maybe they do it for the same reason you'd want to talk about your partner if you had one.

I mean I unreservedly hate everyone in a happy relationship, but I don't blame them. Yes, it would be considerate if they could all just stop with it all and join in with my listening to Morrissey alone in my room and taking cold showers program. But you know, it's not their fault I'm single.

Give the mysterious 'her' a call now and confirm or unconfirm plans. Then you'll know what's happening. And maybe if all goes well you'll be able to talk about her.

wheels148's picture

her name is winnie

I sent her a message on facebook last night and havent heard...

Lol-taire's picture

Seriously, actually talk to

Seriously, actually talk to her on the phone.

I always delay replying to facebook messages. Either because I haven't checked my page or because I have checked my page but don't want to seem too keen... err it's stupid but it's true. Also, if I read a message and then for whatever reason don't reply right away then I sometimes forget to reply at all.

What I'm saying is facebook is fallible. Use the good old fashioned telephone. Or text her if you don't want to have to actually speak to her in person.

wheels148's picture

left a message

on her cell on tuesday ....

Lol-taire's picture

then why don't you just call

then why don't you just call her?

wheels148's picture

I dialed her cell by mistake

I dialed her cell by mistake last night and didnt leave a message
when I called tuesday I left a message

wheels148's picture

..because

I dialed her cell by mistake last night and didnt leave a message
when I called tuesday I left a message