So I read this article in the New York Times Magazine about this club at Harvord of people who've taken vows of chastity. The woman who started it considered herself a feminest because she was trying to give women the strength to refuse to have sex with men. So...if abstinence is really about saying no to men, then lesbianism is the way to go. How can men take advantage of you while fucking you if you're fucking women? YIPEE!!!
But seriously, if we (women) want equality/respect from men, shouldn't we ask for it everywhere, including (perhaps especialy) in the bedroom, instead of avoiding the places where we're disrespected.
Regardless, it was an interesting viewpiont, even if I disagree with it.