study starting to catch up with me

scandalboy's picture

its the beginning of week 3, and things are starting to get serious at uni. its so much work!!! god im studying this arvo, but it scraes me how much work i have to do for my media contexts class, when i dont have that good a grasp on the content. its just getting daunting, thats all. i need to set up a study group this week.

i miss A so badly. i need to be with him. last night we started talking about sex. not only our own, but in general. we talked about what turns us on, what we may explore when we come to having sex, etc he told me that the idea of being dominated is a turn on; and that works for me, i can do that lol

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jeff's picture

Eh...

Avoid talking about sex in any sort of LD/online relationships, it usually taints your offline thing, taints expectations, and honestly, discovery is a lot of the fun.

You'll start to live a projected sexual relationship mentally that doesn't exist physically, and anything along those lines can plant seeds of future breakups, all because you're with the person you make him up to be in your head more than you're with the person he is in the flesh, so he actually isn't measuring up to your fantasy... sounds silly, but I've seen it again and again...

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scandalboy's picture

umm... unless i read the

umm... unless i read the comment wrong.. we arent an online couple... this is a real life thing. he's a boy ive met at uni, and we've been going out a little while. last night we were on the phone, talking about sex things, not on msn or anything....

jeff's picture

Oh, OK...

That's fine then, wasn't sure. I do think it's the poison pill of online relationships. :-)

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