Arthur's picture

Every once in a while I stop to think, what about kids? How am I ever gonna........

I've never wanted to be the one giving birth. Just...can't. Don't think I can handle it, just don't wanna. But I do want kids. Someday. I want to be a father. I want to be a daddy. I want to toss a ball around with my son in the backyard, or teach my baby girl to ride a bike or rollerblade and drive my kids to school.

And with enough money, I could do that. I could adopt. And I'd love an adopted child with everything in me. But...

They won't be a part of me. Everyone wants to leave some kind of legacy, right? We all want to leave a bit of ourselves behind, no? My kids would be my legacy, but they won't be part of me they won't be from me. It sounds selfish, but...I want my own kids.


Lol-taire's picture

In vitro fertilisation and

In vitro fertilisation and have the embroyo implanted into a surrogate.

jeff's picture


Harvest eggs before you start hormones.

Keep paying your freezer bills.

When you're ready, find sperm and a surrogate.

Presto, you'll be the father of a baby using your own, err, egg.


"Be like a postage stamp. Stick to one thing until you get there." -- Josh Billings.

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whateversexual_llama's picture

hm, I wanna be a daddy, too.

hm, I wanna be a daddy, too. A lesbian daddy. ^____^

Be yourself. 'Cause if you're busy being somebody else, who's gonna be you?