Bi???

masochist's picture

Wats yer opinion on bisexuals?? I went out w/ one and it seemed she was really unsure of wat she wanted, personally I don't think there is such a thing.Yer either gay or straight...but then again there are people that are curious and questioning so what fuck????? any bisexuals wanna inform me ?????

jeff's picture

well...

I'll only say that you picked a good user name.

So, you dated one girl who was bi who was unsure, so all bis are unsure? If one person proves a point, I suppose your ex can say all lesbians are judgmental?

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Neutrina's picture

"You're either gay or you're straight"

Huh. Like you can only be one race/ethnicity. And you can only be femme or butch. Right?
There's so much more to the universe than that. Bisexual is totally possible. It doesn't mean confused, or slutty, which is one of the other common bullshit stereotypes. It just means "has the capacity to like people of both genders". Why on Earth would that not be possible?
And, yes, some people aren't sure of what they want. That doesn't mean all bisexuals aren't sure. Some really have got themselves figured out.

Sorry to go off on you, but it's a subject I'm a bit touchy about.

"She's a mystery
She's too much for me
But I keep coming back for more
She's just the girl I'm looking for"
-The Click Five "Just the Girl"

fox333's picture

I think you can find truely

I think you can find truely bi people, but its kinda hard becasue most gays come out as bi first (for a good reason) one of my friends was bi, and she really was. But I think (this is just what I heared) some have a preference. Like they are bi but prefer women (or men) am i wrong?

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Notuptothinkingofacreativeusername's picture

As a bisexual person, it

As a bisexual person, it really makes me sad to hear this kind of closed mindedness. While it is true that some bi people are only experimenting, this is not always the case. I myself am genuinely attracted to both girls and boys and I don't see this changing any time soon.
Also, bisexual have a very hard time fitting in, because they are neither straight nor gay, and many members of the gay community don't see them as not being straight, and many members of the straight community don't see them as not being gay.
"Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent!"
-Eleanor Roosevelt

masochist's picture

dammn calm down people, all

dammn calm down people, all i asked was one fuckin question, respect my opinion u closed minded cunts.srry but all i was doin was trying to understand where these people were coming from douchebags. ne way thanx to the people who were polite and answered nicley.as for the rest of ya suck my huge weiner!! =D

jeff's picture

Err...

You asked a generic question, but then added your inflammatory, poorly informed opinion, so you should expect such a response on a site where LGBT youth come to not hear stereotypical conjecture about their lives.

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Notuptothinkingofacreativeusername's picture

Thanks Jeff, for clearing

Thanks Jeff, for clearing that up, I didn't mean to jump on the person who started this forum, I was just slightly offended by what they said and I wanted to make that clear.
"Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent!"
-Eleanor Roosevelt

the mouse that roared's picture

Um

I think you're the one that's being close-minded. And using ridiculously offensive language. Don't write off one sexual orientation because of an ex. They generally aren't a good judge of these things anyway.

Thank you for further fleshing out my stereotype of all lesbians as insecure and biphobic.

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gaynow's picture

Oww. Hey there, that's not

Oww. Hey there, that's not fair. ::pout::

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Rachel_Girl's picture

Okay...this is why I don't

Okay...this is why I don't like labels, people start labeling things and they end up trying to put people into nice little packages which doesn't work. So your ex was confused that doesn't mean all bisexual people are confused, it means she was. Bisexual means you can be attracted to both males and females, some bi people prefer one over the other some are truly 50-50 or really, really close. I mean if a person knows they've gotten crushes on or have been attracted to both, that's not confusion they know who they are.

And maybe for some it's just that the person matters more than the package that the person comes in but I think that's pansexual or asexual depending on how much the package matters.

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Neutrina's picture

Well said.

Well said.

"She's a mystery
She's too much for me
But I keep coming back for more
She's just the girl I'm looking for"
-The Click Five "Just the Girl"

masochist's picture

eat my vag ahahahaha =D

eat my vag ahahahaha =D

masochist's picture

ohh and thanx for furthering

ohh and thanx for furthering my hate for homophobic shit for brains like u =D
LUV PROUD LESBIAN XD

jeff's picture

Err...

If you want to troll and annoy people, there are many sites online.

Shutting this thread down so it goes away.

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