One of the 3 people I'm out to is my older sister T. I told here about 3 months ago. She seemed ok with it, at first. She would deliberatly refer to things as being "gay". It made me upset and I told her, but she kept doing it becuse she knew it made me upset. We have gotten in fights and she would call me things like fucking dumb dyke and carpet muncher. I normally wouldn't put up with her calling me stuff like that but the one time where I fought back to her she threatened to out me to our parents. I'm not at all ready to come out to my parents. She has already outed me to one of her friends.
She keeps hanging it over my head, like I'm her bitch lately because i can't do or say anything back to her to even the score. I've asked her so many times to stop saying stuff. She says shes sorry and she was just upset when she said it, but its happened like 5 times.
Also, yesturday we went to the mall and we walked by this really hot girl and I was obviously checking her out. T was said, " You have no chance in hell with her, you cant even date guys, let alone ever get married." I just stopped walking and looked at her and turned the other way and walked off.
I know they're little things and other people receive worse things than that, but I never thought my first personal homophobic encounters would be from my sister, who I trusted to and told her the truth. I don't know what to do.