I'm new here, just found this forum by looking online.
I think right now I just need some advice from others like me. I'm just feeling a bit lost.
About 3 weeks ago I came out to by 2 best friends. I'm glad I did because this is who I am. I can't really explain it but its like being able to breathe for once.
But about 2 weeks ago in my sculpture class I was outed by one of the girls in my class. I had never told her or anyone in that class, much less that campus.
I was speaking with the table that I sit at and I guess what triggered this girl to out me was by me saying that I don't want children at this point in my life. I don't have the best relationship with my family, so I'm not sure if I want kids.
But the very second I said this, the girl just started saying, "You're the biggest stereotype! Come out! Come out! It's okay! Push, push, push! Push the door! Don't be afraid! Push!" She just yelled it out in front of the classroom. What made me so mad was that she was laughing the whole time.
I'm bi and the campus I go to is really a religious campus. I mean, the people are religious, not the campus, but the comments I've heard about gay people have hurt me at times. I'm the 'gay' guy now in that class and even a few people have stopped speaking to me or just sort of act like I'm not there.
I don't have any gay friends, so just having to deal with coming to terms with my sexuality has been hard. And this girl that outed me in that class is gay. I thought this was my right to keep this private, to tell those I trusted.
I don't even know what to do. I feel so abused and harassed by this girl for doing this. And she doesn't stop because she makes like comments to others when I'm around. She'll say things like, 'Well, you know gay guys, they're crazy."
I really want her to stop. I don't know who to go to. I can't do this. I mean, any advice?