Dreams about comming out

ShowMeLove's picture

I had a really odd dream last night that my sister told my parents that I was gay(I have no idea how she knew) and that when I got home they were acting all weird and like super positive about gay people and everything. I didn't say whether I was gay I just kept quiet. Then my sister kept trying to get me to meet this 23 year old gay guy she knew because she thought it would be nice for me to have a gay friend that I could relate to. It was SO weird but in the dream I felt so happy and relieved because of the way my parents were acting. I can only hope that they would be that accepting and cool about it when I come out in real life:)

It also made me think that maybe I should seriously consider doing it soon because I want those feelings I had in the dream. I want that relief, I want that weight off my shoulders, you know? Plus I know from what I've read in all of the comming out stories on Oasis that it truly is a massive relief and weight off your shoulders when you finally tell someone the truth. It's so hard, though..........

Has anybody else had dreams about comming out? Would you take it as a sign?

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fleetfootedfox's picture

I personally have never had

I personally have never had dreams about coming out but I think I'd take it as a sign if I did have a dream like that. Hahaha, the thing that convinced me to finally come out was a tarot card reading that I once gave myself... ^_^;;
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ShowMeLove's picture

Oh, yeah. A tarot card

Oh, yeah. A tarot card reading? What did it say that conviced you to come out?

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I wonder why nobody's waiting on you
I'd like to be the one to pull you through your darkest times
I'd love to be the light that finds you
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jmy's picture

I never had a dream about

I never had a dream about it, although when i did it, it was the most amazing feeling, i would recomend doing it,
if your dreaming about it and having those feelings, then maybe it is time.

ShowMeLove's picture

Oh, yeah?

I definitely think I'm getting closer every day to coming out.

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I wonder why nobody's waiting on you
I'd like to be the one to pull you through your darkest times
I'd love to be the light that finds you
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